Monthly Archives: March 2012

Prayer of the Month: St. Michael the Archangel

St. Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the Devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do thou,
O Prince of the heavenly hosts,
by the power of God,
thrust into hell Satan,
and all the evil spirits,
who prowl about the world
seeking the ruin of souls. Amen.

Defend us in battle.  That’s an odd line for a prayer, don’t you think?   Sure, soldiers, Marines, and police officers could say they do battle.  But regular schmoes like you and me?  We get up, we go to work, we get out of work and spend time with our families and then get up the next day and do it again.  We get a day off, and we get up, spend time on family, friends, and hobbies, and then rest up for another day at work.  We don’t do battle.

Or do we?

Sometimes it’s a battle to be kind to that annoying coworker.  Sometimes we want to shout at her that if she worked as much as she complained, she’d be Employee of the Month.  Sometimes we just pat ourselves on the back and think we’re superior to her… before something else reminds us that we, too, have our faults.

Sometimes, it’s just a battle against sloth in general.  We know we need to do the laundry, clean the house, or pay some bills, but instead we’re messing around outside, watching TV or [cough] blogging.  We forget that laundry, housecleaning, and bills are small but necessary parts of our vocation.  Staying on top of these little things can make the big picture clearer.

Sometimes it’s a battle to get to Mass.  Maybe we’d rather not get up early.  Maybe we’re trying to avoid the family Mass, the smug church ladies, or a priest whose homilies are interesting but long-winded.  Maybe we’d rather just be outside.  Or maybe we try to tell ourselves, “Hey, you went on Sunday. Daily Mass isn’t that big a deal, and you’re a busy lady.” We forget that we’re blessed to be able to go to Mass at all, let alone daily Mass. We forget all the graces we receive from frequent Communion.

Sometimes – actually, all the time for me – it’s a battle to get to Confession.  How many times have we said to ourselves, “Oh, the sins I committed weren’t that bad!  I can wait another week!”  Or, “You only really need to go during Lent!  I can wait!”  We forget that we are never closer to God than when we step out of the confessional.

Those last two are perhaps the most epic battles and the ones where we need the most defense.  If somebody (whether an evil spirit or a person) is trying to prevent me from getting closer to God, they would do everything in their power to keep me away from the Church.  And that person may not be merely content with keeping me away from the Church.  If I snap at my coworkers over every little thing and keep an unsanitary house, I’m not presenting a good image of Catholic women, and people might be turned off from the Church due to my behavior.  It isn’t just a battle for our own souls; it’s a battle for our loved ones’ souls too.  What could be more epic?

“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.” – Matthew 18:6

7 Quick Takes Friday – Easter Countdown

1.  We have a garden!  Last weekend I was blessed with both amazing weather and time to enjoy it, so I was able to plant all the seeds I needed to plant and get to the garden center for some peppers and tomatoes to transplant!  DH even went with me to help pick out veggies and carry stuff.

2. Yep, still praying for my Lenten Prayer Buddy!  She doesn’t know who she is yet and it’s all I can do not to make the big reveal right now!  But that will have to wait till Easter.  Prayer Buddy, if you’re reading this I’ve been keeping your intentions in mind in my daily prayers and at each Mass I attend.  Hope things are going well for you!

3.  And here’s one more plug for the orphans before Lent ends!  Maybe it’s just me, but it seems like the kids on the Reece’s Rainbow site that, as a group, have the smallest adoption grants are the kids who are HIV positive.  So, if you feel called to do some more almsgiving this Lent, I would suggest any of these:  HIV+ kids ages 0-5, HIV+ kids ages 6-9, and HIV+ kids ages 10 and up.  The one that especially breaks my heart is Larisa, who turns 14 later this year and will soon age out of the system with very few options in life.  Everybody gushes over the adorable cherubs, but it seems that the older kids often get overlooked. Let’s help this girl get a brighter future!

4.  8 more days without beer… I think I can!  This has been much harder than I thought!   I forgot that St. Patrick’s Day and March Madness both happen during Lent, and that I’d be doing a lot of yard work, all of which make me crave beer.  I told DH that on the way home from Easter Vigil I’m going to stop at the liquor store and get some of our favorite beer, and when get home we’ll have a toast.  (No, he’s not coming with me… this year. ;) )

5.  Speaking of beer and Lent, here’s a story about a guy who ate nothing but beer during Lent 2011!  As crazy as going without beer sometimes makes me, subsisting only on beer would be ten times worse (and probably get me fired).  This guy is amazing!

6. Remember those fescues I wrote about?   I was pulling weeds on my day off and when I opened the compost bin, guess what I saw?  The fescues, just as green as they were when I first chucked them in ten days prior.  Is it a testament to the hardiness of the fescues?  Or do I have such a great green thumb that I can’t kill plants even if I try to?  I’m thinking the former.  Anyway, if you think you can’t grow anything, try fescue – that stuff just refuses to die!

7.  It’s the next-to-last Friday of Lent, which means it’s time for one more hymn!  Jen usually doesn’t do 7 Quick Takes on Good Friday, and I don’t plan to post that day either.  This Friday’s hymn is “What Wondrous Love is This” sung by Michelle Tumes.

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7 Quick Takes Friday – Other People’s Stuff

1.  You may wonder what is going on with my garden.  Really, not much.  I got the beds set up and then last weekend we had beautiful weather which I missed because I was working.   I had planned to spend my days off this week planting, and on the two days I had off, we had approximately 1.5 days of rain.  I’ve been able to plant herbs in pots and some flowers out front, but no veggies yet.  Sigh.

2.  Since I don’t have anything to report, I’m going to share some other blog posts I liked. Well, I suppose I do have one thing to report, which is that thanks to all this rain, I live on a bloody swamp.

3.  This blog post is a must-read for gardeners!  If you’re like me and you want Monsanto’s frankenfoods as far away from your garden as possible, go read Sustainability vs. Monsantan by Soilent Greens.  The post has an excellent explanation of what genetically modified organisms (GMOs) are and which seeds have GMOs.  There are some that might surprise you.  I grew Blushing Beauty peppers last year and had absolutely no clue they were a GMO!   (Post contains some bad language, but it’s easy to avoid.

4.  Over at the National Catholic Register, Simcha Fisher gives us “A Little Proof of a Large Thing.” I’m fascinated by patterns in nature too, and these are beautiful pictures!  God truly is everywhere you look.

5.  I love much of what Jen at Conversion Diary has done, but her poop fates posts crack me up.  Or at least they did, until I remembered that I’m a pet owner.  See, pets are kind of like small children in that if they live in your house and you think you smelled poop… guess what?  You did.  I remembered the poop fates the other day when one of my cats decided to think outside the litter box. The floor was the canvas, the poop was the ink, and the cat was Jackson Pollock.  (And you thought that being childless meant never cleaning up feces!  Ha!)  But unlike me, Jen managed to turn a post about cleaning up poop into a spiritual reflection.

6. Speaking of deep thoughts inspired by mundane things, Leanne at Provoking Beauty has a great post about when loving yourself is hard.  And said post was inspired by a quote from the TV show “Glee”.  Yes, that “Glee!”  Go and read it, you’ll thank me when you’re done.

7.  It’s Friday, so it’s time for a hymn!  This Friday’s hymn is “Order My Steps by GMWA Women of Praise”.

For more Quick Takes, go here!

Why My Husband is Wonderful, Part 2

I though the Feast of St. Joseph would be a good day to post this.  :)

I had a hellish time at work this weekend, and I was bummed that I had to work on St. Patrick’s Day.  (Don’t worry, I’m not relapsing on workaholism; my job requires the occasional weekend in exchange for time off during the week.)  On Saturday, I worked too hard all day with annoying coworkers and was so tired I nearly dozed off during Mass.  Then I drove home on a nearly-flat tire and an almost-empty gas tank and found:

  1. Dinner in the oven.
  2. The cats fed and litterboxes cleaned.
  3. The fridge, which had been empty when I left, was full.

Then I mentioned the tire to DH and he promptly went out with a can of Fix-A-Flat, repaired the tire, drove around the block to make sure it was really fixed, and stopped to fill up my gas tank.

I love that man so much!

You Spend Half Your Life Just Covering Up…

The previous owners of my house planted  four of what I think is blue fescue in the front flowerbeds.  DH once remarked that the fescues remind him of the Fry Guys from the McDonald’s commercials.  We’ve hated them since we moved in years ago, but until now we’ve mostly been ignoring the fescues.  Once in awhile I have a fit of pique wherein I attack them with the weedwhacker.

The Fry Guys, with Birdie the Early Bird in the background.

This year, I decided enough was enough and I was going to get rid of the fescues.  I had an idea; a wonderful, awful idea!   After one of the aforementioned fits of pique, the leaves of the fescues were less than inch long.  I decided to cover up the blue fescues with paper, then soil, then mulch, which would cut it off from the sun and then it would eventually die and rot away and I could plant something decent there.

Now, this method works in some situations, but blue fescue is a persistent little bugger.  Despite everything I did to it, the blue fescue managed to poke through the paper, dirt, and mulch.  I fully uncovered the plants and realized that not only were they still alive, they were easily twice the size they were before.  Enough was enough, and I meant it this time.  I hauled out the shovel and dug the fescues up, roots and all, and chucked them in the compost pile where they belong.

As I was digging, it occurred to me that the fescues were like sin.  You can’t just attack sin vigorously a few times a year and otherwise ignore it.  You can’t just cover sin up and hope it’ll go away.  In both cases, it comes back, bigger and nastier than before (and maybe with a few snails attached).  You have to dig it up from its roots (Confession) and throw it out (prayer).  Sin does not back down easily.  Neither should we.

“Return, O Israel, to the LORD, your God; you have collapsed through your guilt. Take with you words, and return to the LORD; Say to him, “Forgive all iniquity, and receive what is good, that we may render as offerings the bullocks from our stalls.” – Hosea 14:2-3

7 Quick Takes Friday – Lent Redux

1.  We’re halfway through Lent!  So how have I fared?  Read on.  [Full disclosure: haven't been to Confession yet, really need to go, and really proud of the bishop of my diocese for his radio ads reminding people to go.]

2.  Yes, I’m still praying for my Lenten Prayer Buddy!  Every day I say a Memorare for her and her intentions; hopefully it’s helping!  Why a Memorare?  Well, on my  buddy has intentions that Our Lady could probably relate to. Also, the Memorare is a traditional Catholic prayer that I never learned as a kid (despite attending Catholic school K-12); I made an effort to learn it and the St. Michael the Archangel prayer as an adult and say both every chance I get.

3.  And  on the subject of prayer: I’m still working that St. Monica novena for DH...  After [mumble] years of marriage and [cough] years since I started taking Catholicism seriously, it finally occurred to me to do this.  Yes, I am a bit slow.  Why do you ask?

4.  What have I done for almsgiving?  I’ve donated to the charities mentioned on the blog, of course.  And I’ve been a little more open with the multitude of begging letters that come to my mailbox.  After all, it’s not as if I’m robbing anybody’s college fund to give to, say, Nothing But Nets.  And in the spirit of Christian charity, I probably should stop referring to letters from charities as “begging letters.”

5. So, we gave up beer for Lent. Think me an alcoholic if you will, but it’s been much, much harder than I expected!  Some days it seems like every commercial is a beer commercial.  I’m just grateful that I have to work on St. Patrick’s Day weekend, and thus won’t be tempted to race to the nearest liquor store for a pint of Guinness.

6. Still need some help in observing Lent?  Check out For Lent: Redefine True Womanhood at altcatholicah.com!

7.  It’s Friday, so it’s time for a hymn!  I’ve been tired this week and when I can’t sleep, it’s usually because I’m worried about something. This helps me relax: The Litany of the Saints.

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Try, Try Again…

This Lent, I decided I would redouble my efforts to pray for DH’s conversion.  How has that been going, you ask?  Well, earlier today, I gave him a very brief description of RCIA  and he said, “That sounds terrible.”  (I was not suggesting that he attend!  I mentioned RCIA in some other context and he asked me what it was.)

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again (and again and again and again).  So, in addition to reading The Secret Diary of Elisabeth Leseur, today I’m starting the Novena to St. Monica which can be downloaded at the bottom of this page.  If anybody would like to join in, I’d appreciate it!

St. Monica, pray for us!

Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur, pray for us!

What I’m Thankful For Today

There are a lot of reasons I don’t talk about work on my blog, but one of them is that lately almost all of the married people I work with either just had a baby or are expecting.  And that means office baby showers; I figure there’ll be about one per month until the end of summer.  Now, I can be genuinely happy when people announce their pregnancies, I can coo over their babies when they bring them by the office, and I can even handle their labor horror stories.  But baby showers?  I’m sorry.  I just can’t go without getting upset.  I send a present and my regrets.

This morning, I’m grateful because the person who planned the first two office baby showers scheduled them for times when I would not be at work!  I’m not sure if she did that deliberately, but I’m very grateful!

7 Quick Takes Friday – Spring!

1. WordPress often suggests tags for posts.  Earlier this week, one of the tags suggested for me was “motherhood.”  Et tu, WordPress?

2. Gardening is in progress!  As I mentioned, DH helped me assemble the beds and haul the dirt in last weekend.  I was able to get dirt in one bed after we assembled the frames; due to wind and rain I haven’t done anything with the other three beds yet.  Luckily, I have the next few days off and the weather’s supposed to be beautiful.  Hopefully I’ll have some pictures soon!

3. I’ve decided what I’m going to grow this year: tomatoes (of course), bell peppers, hot peppers, Swiss chard, lettuce, carrots, cilantro, basil, oregano, chamomile, and echinacea.  The last two have medicinal purposes which you can look up if you’re interested.  I’m not sure if I’ll use either one for medicine; I just think they look pretty.

4. Speaking of looking pretty, how about this picture of Swiss chard? (Photo taken by Gezzelig Girl.)

Hopefully mine will look this good. :)

5.  I’m dithering over when to start planting.  Normally, our last frost is some time in April, but this year we’ve had an exceedingly mild winter.  If I get the garden beds taken care of this weekend, I could potentially start planting next week.  But there’s always a chance of a freak snowstorm (or more likely, one more frost) that could wreck everything.  Should I roll the dice?  Should I just wait until after Easter?  Even in a normal year, danger of frost would be just about over by then.  (For those who are wondering, I don’t grow my tomatoes or peppers from seed. I’d have to start them indoors, and I’m not comfortable doing that with animals in the house, so I get transplants from the local nursery.)

6. Remember how I said that I was over Facebook?  That was about a month ago; I think the last time I logged in was either right before or right after Ash Wednesday.  And guess what?  I don’t think anybody’s noticed I’ve been gone from Facebook!  As a result, I doubt I’ll go back to using it regularly again.  I’ll probably log in again later in the month to make sure I have copies of all my pictures on my hard drive and make sure I have a note of all the birthdays I want to remember, and after that I think I’ll delete my account.

7.  Here’s your hymn for Friday: “Ubi Caritas” as sung by the Cambridge Singers.  For those that don’t speak Latin (I barely do), the refrain means “Where true love and charity are found, God Himself is there.”

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Not Everything We Want…

I often hear parents of large families say, “My kids don’t have everything they want, but they do have everything they need.”  This thought was rattling around in my head last Friday after a rough week at work.  God, the Father of the largest family in history, has not given me everything I want: a baby, a Catholic husband (yet), a job at a company that’s not run by total nitwits, physical strength, or a winning lottery ticket.  But I do have what I need.

I need opportunities to grow in patience and holiness, and every day either DH or my job provides me with at least one such opportunity.  (No, he doesn’t read my blog, why do you ask?)

I need work that serves the Lord and my fellow man, and I have that, even if the place I currently work drives me crazy.

I need to share the fruits of my labors with others, and my job pays well enough for me to do that.

I need to get over my stubborn pride and learn to ask for help when I need it, and being physically small requires me to do that.  Nothing says humility like needing help opening a jar.

I need a challenge, and verbal sparring with DH is it.  DH and I don’t just argue religion; sometimes when we’re bored we have fake arguments, like whether the correct word is soda or pop1 or whether Kirk or Picard was a better captain.2

I need to be reminded of divine love, and Stations of the Cross does that in spades.

No, I don’t have everything I want.  But I have everything I need.

“If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him?” -Matthew 7:11

  1. Pop.
  2. Picard, of course.